Tuesday, May 31, 2011

May 31

I went running with a friend in Discovery Park this morning. Soon, the waist-high grass we ran through will be brown from the summer sun.

Cal is thinking a lot these days about being six, and what it will mean not to be six anymore. He is sure he'd like to stay six and three-quarters forever. He wanted to know what age I liked being the best; I told him, the age I'm at always feels best. And I mean that.

I accidentally texted my sister, not Alexi, during Abbott's baseball game tonight, and told her Abbott made a triple play. A most happy accident. Despite it being late at night where she lives, she was at the movies with her son seeing the latest Woody Allen movie, and indirectly got to share the moment with Abbott and all of us.

Our days are always as new as they are repetitive in this landscape that we call home.

Monday, May 30, 2011

Memorial Day

For the first time since last November, when I was in another state, I was too hot today! The sensation was glorious.

Also noteworthy:

Eagles fishing in the morning sun, pursued by a murder of crows (love having a chance to use that term) as I poured my coffee.

Open windows and open doors.

Overheard: 'Cal, let's be the good guys, mom and dad are the bad guys.'

The smell of watermelon.

Great links: this collection of photos, this article, this list of summer reads.

Sunday, May 29, 2011

from Sunday night

xo Lecia

Friday, May 27, 2011

on the cusp

So here it is...the start of the weekend, the one that makes it officially summer. We dust off our grills, purchase tomato plants, sweep our patios. I bought multiple varieties of berries today, from California, but still. Doing so made it feel so much more like summer is actually happening.

Over the course of the weekend we'll plant a few tomato plants, and, I suspect, get re-acquainted with neighbors also outside working whom we haven't seen much of since the fall.

Whatever your plans are, I hope your weekend is lovely. xo

Thursday, May 26, 2011


Abbott: 'Cal, let's play lawyers. We'll copyright things, & sue people if they do things.'


Cal: 'Nah, let's play Star Wars.'

I hope your day was a good one, however you spent it. xo

Wednesday, May 25, 2011


I took this picture earlier this evening as I walked from where I parked my car to a restaurant to meet a friend. The neighborhoods in this city are all so distinctive; I love every opportunity to spend time in another. I had dinner with a friend from high school. It was so good to be at a table with her; what we talked about was irrelevant.

On the drive home, I noticed blossoms strewn all over the place. The wind was constant and soft.

Back at home, I walked through my quiet house and felt a little sad. I kissed everyone -- already asleep -- goodnight. It's good to get out, and it's good to come home.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

when the time comes

When my boys are grown up, I hope they will have a slight sense of discomfort when they don't get outside after dinner. I hope they feel compelled to walk around the block, notice what's happening around them and what changes from day to day. Even if it's raining or snowing. I hope they'll say hello to any neighbors or stangers they encounter along the way; pat their dogs. I hope this habit we have becomes ingrained in who they are.

Monday, May 23, 2011


The first cherries of the year are always the most memorable to me. Cherries! I bought these this morning, shipped from California, and they aren't as delicious as the locally grown ones will be that will appear in about a month. But still, I ate so many I got a stomachache.

Soon, our peonies will be in bloom. I saw some for sale this morning, also, but I didn't buy any.

Tonight at Cal's baseball game I sat just behind the catcher. I overheard one of the catchers tell a coach from the other team, 'I'm the best player on the team. I got a home run.' Soon, tact and self doubt and other filters will insure that that level of bravado or self-confidence or honesty, whatever, will seldom, if ever be heard.

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Sunday at Discovery Park

I was about to get dressed to go running when it occurred to me that it would be much more fun to spend some time outdoors, together. Spur of the moment outings are often the best ones, have you noticed? We went to Discovery Park, a five minute drive from our house, and hiked through woods to the beach. As the trail widened onto a meadow we saw a bunny; quite a surprise and a charming sight. I was amazed by the daisies and lupine we encountered. When it was time, nobody wanted to leave.

Left to remind us of today in the week ahead, on the counter in a glass of water: a poppy and a daisy and a tiny flowering branch found on the trail.

Friday, May 20, 2011

from Friday night

Good times this evening at a school event.

Enjoy your weekend. xo

Thursday, May 19, 2011

here's the thing

Today I had my second session of Pilates, and it left me feeling peaceful and grounded. As I sat thinking about it afterward, it occurred to me that a fundamental difference between Pilates and running, my usual exercise, is that running is transcendent of the physical for me in many ways, pushing through feeling my body, and Pilates is very much a process of connecting the mind and the physical.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

what there is

Sunshine, banana bundt cake and the first of our lilacs. The day included just as long a list of setbacks that I won't get into here; in the bigger scheme of things it was a fine day. And tomorrow there will still be cake, and lilacs, and, presumably, sunshine.

Tuesday, May 17, 2011


I noticed the first of the forget-me-nots today on a walk.

I think that I get as much enjoyment from thinking about taking a picture -- composing, watching the light, finding a subject -- as I get from looking at the end result. Do you know what I mean?

More tomorrow.

Monday, May 16, 2011

when the weather starts to get warmer

(Not that it's getting much warmer yet, here, but I'm an optimist. And, the forecast for this week looks good.)

The first cocktail I ever had was a gin and tonic. I was at a catered party with a full bar and didn't know what to order; it's what my friend Steve got me, and it's my drink of choice to this day.

Here's how I make them. In advance, chill the tonic water. Fill a glass with ice cubes. Add 2 oz gin (I like Hendrick's; the smell as much as the cucumber-y, green flavor). Add one quarter to one half a squeezed lime, to taste. Top it off with 6 oz tonic water (I like Fever Tree tonic water - it comes in 6 oz bottles), stir well, and enjoy.

Sunday, May 15, 2011

from Sunday night

Sunday night is always a mixture of a lingering sense of the idyllic, on the one hand, and on the other, the unavoidable reality of setting an alarm clock, collecting garbage for Monday morning's pick up, getting organized for school tomorrow. When Alexi and I were dating, we cooked dinner together every Sunday night, as a way to stretch out those last few hours of togetherness in the weekend.

My friend Valerie commented on Flickr about the last photo pictured above. She said, 'hopefully heaven looks like this.' Such a beautiful thing to say on so many levels. Let's all go in to the new week looking for the bits of heaven in our surroundings. xo